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Alexander.Yakovlev 15th January 2007 21:49

In fairness though, university involves a lot of drinking anyway, so what is the problem with drinking in a cheaper bar and having the same/more fun with your friends?

clicker 16th January 2007 01:46


Originally Posted by Whirlygig (Post 3069738)
....and then instructor has to give student a bollocking....

Known in my trade as a repeat offence. :ok:

Sorry Whirl's, unable to resist that. :E

clicker

Whirlygig 16th January 2007 06:54

'Salright clicker, I sometimes wonder if anyone gets my jokes!!! :E

Shall I be your straight man? :}

Cheers

Whirls

Green Meat 16th January 2007 08:40

Whirly

Just to pick you up on that earlier point it IS now a criminal offence for a teacher/lecturer to have a relationship with a student under the age of 18, it is seriously frowned upon at University level (although the extension to the law to cover Uni fell through - wonder why?)

BluntedAtBirth 16th January 2007 09:14

I have been told that instructors in the ground training system have to sign an additional commitment to maintain 'proper relationships etc etc' with students, hence if they break the 'no bonking' agreement they can be dragged over the coals. If the UAS instructors sign something similar, and how could the fun police miss a trick like that, then they would be in the proverbial and subject to interviews on Core Standards and Values.

Still, if there is a real problem, as opposed to a bit of jealousy :yuk: , and it does breach the 'Service Interest Test', then pprune isnt the place to whinge about it annonymously! Either tell the (lucky git) they are offside or raise it with the chain of command.

Inspector Dreyfuss 16th January 2007 09:41

I am delighted to hear that some irresponsible drinking still goes on amongst the students!

Wholigan 16th January 2007 10:53


If the UAS instructors sign something similar, and how could the fun police miss a trick like that, then they would be in the proverbial and subject to interviews on Core Standards and Values.
They do ---- they haven't ---- and they are!

EnigmAviation 16th January 2007 11:15

Inappropriate behaviour
 

Originally Posted by Seen-A-Lot (Post 3069403)
It has come to my attention that a number of instructors seem to think it acceptable to have relationships with students who are under their guidance....Not only that, but it also seems crazy that in an organisation that prides itself on standards we are encouraging these UAS students to drink themselves into oblivion. Surely this is something that really must be adressed.


Well said !

Having retired after 30 years of dealing with studes at close quarters in the cockpit (now trainees to be PC) of both genders, I think the correct behaviour code is called "Professionalism".

However tempting the goods, look but don't touch ! Keeps one's career going too !

Caveat Aviator is a good rule - every bit of Mess "good fun" can deteriorate into a much more serious matter all too easily - as one recent Court Martial of a young and talented SH pilot will bear witness.

Equally on the bar front, breathalyser checks in some places may be more revealing than we would like - thus again enjoy, but remember your core activity - and in the long term your liver !!

FormerFlake 16th January 2007 11:18

The only reason we still have the UAS system is so fat, bolding pilots can get some action with impressionable young students.

scroggs 16th January 2007 11:20

Things have changed then, Wholi! ;)

My earlier comment about instructors having married students in the past was not a throwaway line; I was one of those who married a student (though she was a social member, and not on the UAS roll). This was a live issue at the time (late '80s), and the high-powered help had to accept that such relationships were between consenting adults of officer status, and so could not be prevented. The conflict of interest question naturally came up, but it was down to individual UASs to deal with that as they saw fit. In one or two cases, that meant that the student left the Squadron, but in many more it was made to work.

To my knowledge, the first such relationship - and subsequent marriage - is alive and well and has produced several offspring. And more than one or two hangovers!

3 bladed beast 16th January 2007 12:20

Seem to remember a recent case at Lyneham where a co-pilot on the J Sqn had an affair with another co-pilots wife.....

He remained at Lyneham, virtually unpunished....

But I guess thats ok!

Wader2 16th January 2007 13:07

AFAICR we never had a problem with unprofessional conduct between student and instructor at Nav School.

Until we had female studes that is :} .

Joking aside it was so new and no one transgressed (initially anyway) that there were no rules. There was however mutterings about one old, sallow and balding (but not fat) instructor and one particularly notable student but, again as far as I can recall, nothing ever came out if you forgive the pun. He was the course commander.

Mmmmnice 16th January 2007 18:33

Oi FF - I'm neither fat, nor bolding (whatever that is)
In the meantime I say string em all up and bring back early morning runs, conscription, cold showers, hanging etc etc ........did I miss anything? Nice to see this forum suddenly 'discovering' a UAS mo that has endured for years! Certainly the only bit I remember of my outbrief from CFS was "leave the girls alone" - no doubt there would be an updated version covering all 'preferences' these days

rooftopartist 17th January 2007 12:11

get a life "seen a lot", in fact, get out and see a lot.

Tigs2 18th January 2007 09:02

'Wish I'd Seen-A-Lot'
Freud and Jung would argue that the feelings of anxiety and anger you are experiencing over these issues are cause by repressed emotions, caused by a deep rooted desire towards this particular age group, and the power play thing. It unsettles you that others can take advantage of this and you (any where near the mid-life crisis??) cannot. This was particularly reinforced by your very robust statement denying your interest.

I've rattled someones cage have I? To be honest I can think of nothing worse. 18..... no thanks. Like dipping my wick in my mates daughter.
There are definitly things worse than this surely.
Now lay back on the couch... Take a deep breath... and tell us about your childhood, and perhaps your teachers:E

ShyTorque 18th January 2007 20:03

This UAS thing sounds great; where do we sign?

Whirlygig 18th January 2007 20:37

ShyT, I think you might be a little old to be a student now!

Cheers

Whirls

TorqueOfTheDevil 30th January 2007 22:08

Simply don't see what all the fuss is about...

Leaving aside the relationship issue, which has already been done to death, I don't see the problem with a few drink-related high jinks by UAS members. Of course UAS studes can sometimes be a noisy obnoxious bunch, but in my experience (not so long ago!), UAS events - though usually drunken - rarely (if ever) involved drugs and rarely (if ever) ended in violence...in which case, UAS studes are better behaved than 95% of people their age. Aren't there more important things to complain about than a bit of youthful exuberance?

Thirty Eight South 31st January 2007 01:58

[quote: Surely this is something that really must be adressed.[/quote]

there's a typo there cobber, surley it's 'undressed'?

If, on the off chance, you find yourself in the boozer, half cut, 6 or 7 pints to the wind and some bonkable piece of totty hoves into view, follow the magic pointer, stroll over, chance your arm and think of england..

PhoenixDaCat 31st January 2007 12:21


Originally Posted by Green Meat (Post 3071034)
Whirly
Just to pick you up on that earlier point it IS now a criminal offence for a teacher/lecturer to have a relationship with a student under the age of 18, it is seriously frowned upon at University level (although the extension to the law to cover Uni fell through - wonder why?)

The ACO had this great idea of putting the words "Instructor Cadet" on the rank tabs of those cadets over 18. Makes it nice and easy for the airmen to identify the legal ones when on annual camp.:8


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