I wonder how she'd feel about it if we gave her a link to this thread!

Pretty good I'd imagine

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Well done Oveur :ok:

I couldn't use skype, msn etc coz she was not online.

Italian, fiesty then?

Yes we all get tooshie struck sometimes but just remember, its only the size of a spaniel's ear but it has brought down governments, and will do so again, many times!!!!:{

She wasn't online? All the more reason to dump the cave woman then!

Actually, Skype has an option for working with land lines as well, but the three hour calls are the real issue, more so than what they cost!

bit of a curve ball this one. I had similar problem with my missus. What it came down to was that she cared about us so much that she was so afraid that the situation would split us up. When it came down to it she really didn't want me to quit, in the longterm she reall wanted me to succeed and chase my dream it just didnt come across that way at the begining. She just needed some reassurance and also some support for her. Everyone has different circumstances, this is just another perspective.

Good luck with your training mate, I know you will not regret it :D

Well done Oveur. You won't regret it and like a post above so rightly says, women do need some reassurance and support when it comes down to it so bear that in mind but at the same time don't let compassion turn into weakness! :E

Perhaps we should start somesort of forum for the WAG widows. They can all ahve a chat about their insecurities and face them together. Is this a good idea or asking for trouble? :ugh:

CS :ok:

Having a WAG forum on here is the very definition of asking for trouble :=

Thought so. :)

Oveur

I was in an identical situation to you, girlfriend of 3 years. I had a lame job and wanted something more.

I was on the CTC scheme and went to NZ for the best part of a year. Granted she cheated on me while I was away, which wasnt great and we then broke up but I'm now with the most amazing girl, flying planes and overwhelmingly happy. I shudder to think what would have happened if I hadn't gone.

If you don't do this flying course I'm going to come round to your house, pack your things, put you in a bag and force you to do it. I'm not joking. You will only regret it. Imagine if this girl leaves you 6 months down the line after you've sacrificed your dream? Not worth considering.

Are you sure it's cake he's eating?

And Glad to see you sorted it! :D
now good luck! and wish me luck that me and my girl will last long distance..

Yeah I hope me and my mrs survive the 3 months apart.

**** me its like an episode of Jeremy Kyle in here!

Im off to join the Loose Women at lunch time!

CS :ok:

Job done lads. Lets move onto more pressing issues like Football (or soccer for the Americans) :ok:

Yes after all this mushy talk I feel like doing something manly....

I'm off to hunt something and make fire!

CS :)

Just thought i would put my two pence in, as a girl - you have to remember she gave the ultimatum once so there is nothing stopping her doing it again... I know you are only at the beginning - but say you get your dream LHS with the dream airline - whats to stop her turning round and doing the whole "its either me or the airline".....

Fair enough you have sorted it out already - but just remember, old arguments never fully go away with girls.....

/devils advocate mode......

(dont take any notice if the post isnt welcome):ok:

12/18 months isn't a long time when compared to the rest of your life! :ok:

Follow your dreams!

Smith:

There's no smoke without fire eh Keith?


Cryptic I know..... Prize to the first person who works my reply out!!!

Now there is a refreshing bit of sense. Always good to hear a girls point of view. Thanks :ok:

Oveur

Mate if your gonna get on this game then you need to include a few other pressing issues.....like BEER...BEER, stewardessess and oh eeeerr BEER plus in there somewhere BEER:E

ecampbell

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What is it with you women and the above......its scary. My missus still brings up stuff i forgot in about 3 seconds from 20 years ago.

Mustfly

I thought it was the female velcro patch. Maybe im not looking at the right porn sites;)

Pyro Tek

Your worse than mustflywillfly;):cool:;)