Well, I think you are biased...
Yes you have judged us males, yet you are refusing to judge her.
She was happy at EK, ignorant of your troubles same as all of us when you were getting fired and starting your war against the Company. You have underlined that many times.
I personally think that she did nothing wrong...we are not citizens of the Country, this is not our home and without real retirement or health benefits eternal loyalty is not expected.
As for the male business... never ending story. There is no male and female pilot license.