RAT5 : your posts make my day and reconcile me with the time lost to read through some of the nonsense here ..
When I was a lad , pilots used to come to the bar at the bottom of the Tower, and when there was a problem one of them would say after the first beer : " Oh, By the way ...."
The issue raised was debated ,and if it was one , the culprit had to pay a round and for sure it never occurred again.
If there was no solution or no one to blame , , one would say : "**** happens ! " and that was it .