Not wishing to up end the apple cart so to speak but you guys don't know what it is like to be a female and learning to fly.
I had one instructor who told me "if i did the next engine failurs correctly we could land and he would reward me under the trees at the end of the paddock'. I changed schools.
We not asking for anyhing extra just to be given the same chance as you guys. I now operate my own school and employ instructors,
One other thing be careful what you say to your students, I employed the instructor that sent me solo for 6 months