Reverend Green. The naivety of you and your ilk is staggering. About 10 minutes research before joining would have saved you all this angst. Not that you shouldn't have joined, a free type rating, a few years getting drunk round Asia ... who wouldn't ?
But .....
Things will get worse and if you hang around a bit longer, they will get worse still.
That is it my friend in a nutshell. Enjoy the single life living in a shoebox while it lasts and then pull the handle.