how to cut down my own commitment to it on each Wednesday afternoon
Write a comprehensive guide to perform the actions required for defragging and other faffs, at the most basic "then click next" level, and hand it to SWMBO, with the option - DIY or buy new.
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Once you get out of hospital (a team of doctors having laboured to remove a Presario), you may find that her attitude may have changed!
SD