InsectDingy,
Out of curiosity I had a peek at your ranting. Are you sure everything is OK in your life? Some friends of mine, since you seem to reside in Melbourne, can supply the phone numbers of two very dedicated and experienced psychologists.
Either you are a very insecure and troubled individual or an amazingly odious character who delights in inflicting pain on already stressed people. I can only support the plea to the Moderators to relegate you to a private sandbox.
To Guys/Gals who are worried .... please .. please call a PAN person.
You know the rest.
N