One BNE-LAX trip a month? That's two and a half trips a bid period? On a 165 divisor?
In addition, the S/O has had nearly 15 years to take an upgrade.
It's fine to go for lifestyle, power to them.
But for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, unfortunately it appears to be coming now'ish.
I feel sorry for all the pilots on what's happening at the moment, it's all just plain terrible.
I edited my previous post for clarity to say that the reduction in hours was at the crew members request, not due to a reduction in flying.