Obviously spoken by someone who hasn't stood in the front line!
I wear a poppy every year, and I'll be doing the same again. You shame yourself.
your behaviour and appearance can and will influence those that fly with you
Totally true. What you forget is that it's not the uniform that leads, it's the person and there are many styles. Those who insist on being called Captain are standing behind the uniform. Those who are leaders use the uniform.
Should we call you "Harry the God"?