Clear2Land78
You are so right. I saw a big bomb explosion at one place I worked. Some laughed it off whilst others almost freaked out.
At the ATCC where I worked last, there was a small tradition amongst some controllers. If one of the ladies had a fright, one of the guys would give her a hug and the ladies would do it for us. A hug can help a great deal, whether you know the person or not.
Take care good friend and may all your frights be small ones.