what to do
I did my commerical part time while i was also working 9- 5. It took me a while, but i made it in the end. I then left my job, did an instructor rating full time for two months while working part time at night and on the weekends. I was then lucky enough to get a job instructing at the school where i completed the rating.
It may take you a while, but stick with it.. and in the end you will make it!