Actually, I am married: However, I like to live out my fantasy life here on PPRuNe. Any attempt by me to limit Mrs TS's checked baggage weight would be met with icy disdain and simply ignored, possibly accompanied by a lose-lose comment such as "You want me to look my best for you, don't you - Or do you no longer care?"
I am trying to think how you negotiate around that one
and the only one I can think of is having the credit card ready when you get charged the excess.
That would be a really good negotiating training exercise classroom scenario.