I would take solace knowing my loved one left this World without suffering and died doing what they loved doing. There is nothing grotesque about the video and as in anything one has the ability to simply not watch the video.
All this hand wringing doesn't change the cause or results of the crash and death of the people aboard.
People die in this business we participate in....always have...always will. That is the risk we accept when we put the Wings on our Chests.....the families understand that.
Sad to see it happen....but that is Life.
Learn from what happened if we can....and try to prevent it from happening again....at least then they were not lost without any good whatsoever coming from it.