Vortex mate, your post does you absolutely no favours, and rather shows you in a not very pretty light.
I agree with sevenstrokeroll here, his post was excellent, and really does demonstrate that being humane rally can make all the difference.
Folk are folk, most are not mean, horrible or bad. Sometimes they act out of character especially in places and situations they may not normally be in.
Listen first, try to understand, and then engage mouth
In that order well!