All replies comes from people who are still living in the cloud of the "dream"
Reality check is that if you are in a good relationship, the changes the studies will first do to your life, and later the job, if you get a job, will not be fair to say, oh yes if she loves you it will work out!
Sorry, you guys saying that are talking like naive kids, without a clue!
When I started my ATPL theory, our teacher said, 50% of you who start, will end up separated/divorced if you in a relationship!
It's not about that she should accept it, because you will at times discover it takes all your time, if you are "lucky" and manage to go all the way, it will at times consume your relationship and put it under severe strain!