I am disgusted reading your post.
Apart from the rudeness, there is a safety issue here.
You are not doubt an experienced pilot in this type of environment. However the pilot could have just as easily been a very inexperienced pilot. This could have caused a distraction, which possibly could have triggered a chain of events that led to an accident.
A thick skin in most cases, comes with experience and not normally at the beginning of the lifelong learning curve.