Bas:
"I have no issue with overseas humanitarian aid"
You do realise that most of this "aid" goes to the overseas and often corrupt governments who use the money on anything but the people it is intended to help.
And even then we know that our government doesn't really give this "aid" to help people, merely to be seen to do our part in the world, and buy friendship from our neighbours to the north.
But no, you just keep living in your perfect little dream world.