Well I guess it depens on the CRM you have at your working place. If I was to sit next to Spinnerhead I'd most probably also be in the lower 20% for him, as he seems to be too narrow-minded to give a female Pilots a chance.
I like to have mixed flight deck crews, because I can help my male colleages out in situations where "they just are not menally as well equipped as I am". We do have a different way of looking at things, noticing them and reacting, but for staying in the loop it broadens the overview of the situation if our CRM is as good to wish to share and accept the comments from both sides. Together we are great!
Cheers