If I may say so, this is beginning to get bloody silly. This is a forum for aviation, not psychoanalysis. Pilots are of all types and ages and abilities, and so are instructors, on both sides of the pond. We all have different experiences, and we all somehow get it together and learn to fly both before and after getting our licences. Someone asked a few questions, and the amount of stuff that got read into it...!!!!
Even when I was working as a psychologist I'd never have managed all this!!!!!
Sami, don't take too much notice of it all. And please don't let it colour your view of PPRuNe. On the whole PPRuNers are a nice bunch who simply answer the question you asked, not go flying off on 101 tangents. What happened here? I dunno, but if I were you I'd take what you can from it and ignore the rest...and go flying.
