D-ENIM,
Would it help to mention that I have, to choose a couple, on occasion, stopped by the maritime memorial in Mainz and the Falklands memorial in BA to read the names thereon?
Anyhoo, we'll be attending the memorial service in Marlow this year; last year it was Manly and, if I happened to be in Germany, I'd probably go to theirs.
p.s. Better not mention the ceremony we attended on 28th June this year