Sorry for the delay in responding, been out enjoying myself in Cornwall!
Toptobottom...thanks, and yes, you are spot on. I can see that others seem to think what I was posting was a 'hey look at someone doing something wrong I have to report you right now' kind of message, but I wasn't, as you correctly noted.
I was mostly interested in the responses, and what peoples views are. Personally, I think that the approach of 'leave well alone and shout at anyone who even looks like they might be interfering with my freedoms' tends to mean that issues get left too late to actually intervene, which is a shame.
Also, to those of you who have had a nice old go at me for being inexperienced, cos I am still learning, can I just note that perhaps that was why I was asking.
Anyhow, I get it now. How's this as a summary
- Keep my eyes open,
- don't jump to conclusions just because it looks wrong
- if you are sure something is wrong, speak to the person about it
Oh yes, and...
- assume that anyone who has less years experience than you must be wrong, so tell them so....a lot (sorry, couldn't help myself)
Thanks to all who helped...looking forwards to joining the ranks of qualified some day soon (well, within the next few years!!!)