Well IFTB,
there are some good points in your post. But as an "agressive german with a blinkered view of life" may I defend the Dutch a bit. All my life as a military and later civil aviator I have mostly good memories concerning the Dutch aviation community.
As F 104 fighterpilots, being in real trouble, we could always trust the profs from Dutchmil. Same with civil ATC: the best you could get in Europe(besides Danish ATC). "My" Dutch FE's in 727 or 747 were nice fellows and the same applied to pilots in the cockpit or FA's in the cabin.(with exceptions like anywhere).
Regards