8driver,
as an interested observer, who is not on the freighter fleet, I sympathize with your situation.
My take on it is that no freighter PX is a new concept, and it seems sensible that it might take a few months before they work it out properly. I know it's a rough ride for you and others in the same situation, but the philosophy behind encouraging everyone to not sign is that an improvement should naturally evolve - it just takes time.
Out of interest, since the start of no freighter PXing, have they at any stage asked you as a "one off" to PX on the freighter to your PP?