There is less likelyhood of a mistake being made in understanding a request for a selection of any switch, lever, or control movement if clear precise words are used. ie. "gear down" rather than "could you put the gear down honey"
Being polite is more a tone of voice and body langiuage than the use of flowery phrases.
CRM is all about safety and understandable commands for any needed action.
Trying to tie CRM with being politically or socially correct is counterproductive to good airmanship and crew co-ordination.
An a.. ho.. is still an a.. ho.. even when they are being polite.
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