Be aware my beloved wannabees that aviation is not a job!
It's a way of life.
You will be working day,night, holidays,weekends, xmas, new
year every single birthday and anniversary, and you will be away
when the kids are sick,the drains are backing up and whenever
any drama takes place at home.
If your wife is displeased by your need to study now, trust me
you need to kick her into touch immediately. Thats if your really
going to stay in aviation.
Aviation will crawl into your bed and lie between you and your
wife.
If it does'nt, get out and find another job or find a real aviator's
wife.