If I was sitting in the back seat of something pointy and fast I wouldnt give a damn if the lady up front was a lesbian or not as long as she could fly the thing well and get us both back on the ground safely. Or for that matter if it was a bloke who batted for the other side.
What a lot of wasted talent in the past when we kept these people out of the service - it's a change for the better as far as I'm concerned.
That said I'm with occhips on this - no special treatment and no shouting about it.