Rimaa, if you think that someone giving constructive advice is "attacking" you, then you are seriously going to have problems in this job.
I was merely pointing out that *IF* someone decides to be dishonest, then they should be fully prepared for the consequences if found out. In English, 'you' is often used in the plural sense, meaning, people who are reading this. Not 'you' as in 'you=Rimaa'
You guys can do what you want, as someone already gone through the process was just trying to help. But as has been pointed out, many crew give up because honestly it's like banging your head on a brick wall trying to get through to people sometimes.