Bert
Call her stupid if you like. Maybe she is stupid, I don't know. I know lots of stupid people. So, because someone is stupid they get a share of the blame if they are raped? or murdered? or violated?
Come on now, your comments are verging on the border of stupidity; so how would you like it if a big man forced you down and inserted something that you didn't want or care for? Is part of that blame down to you, for scoring high on the stupidity scale?
Bert, I'm not calling you stupid. I am however trying to make you realise that every adult has the right to say Yes or No. If it is No, then it means No. No degree of stupidity or thoughtlessness lessens the crime.
Now, whether the guy is guilty or not, that's not for us to judge. That is the job of the court and the appeal court to decide. If he is guilty then he deserves whatever they throw at him, no matter how hard he has worked to get where he is. He won't get any sympathy from me.