Hey you all....
Thank you for your answers.... Some of you definitely helped to figure out a bit what to do in the future... Others had some tough words... ;-) Such as Mr Cronauer... :-)
I will stay here with Lufti for the future, but who knows, maybe one day when the house is paid off, and the children are out of house, who knows what the future brings....
Now, tophelios made a good point. Being married to a vietnamese might give me some advantages. Believe it or not, I have known my wife for 12 years and definitely know Vietnam quite well... I can imagine everything Mr Cronauer said is true from his point of you...
Anyways, to all of you being there right now, feeling like getting ripped off every day, I also would like to give you one advice... Try to learn Vietnamese. It will definitely make your life better there.... I mean, there are even places where you can learn it for free. So, try it out!
Greetings from Germany and a nice christmas time everyone...
Phicongduc