Kaptin M,
you are taking a small piddly non-issue and trying to turn it into the next contributing factor in a major incident!
The reality, is 99% of the guys I have flown with dont give a toss if their name is, or is not mentioned. In fact, most of the time no one else on the flight deck is actually listening to the pre-flight PA, as they are usually doing something else, trying to get away on time.
For the record, as a SO I have been mentioned more than 50% of the time I have been given a sector.
What is annoying is when the Captain and the FO both try and make you laugh when you are trying to get out the PA at TOD that you have spent the last 15 minutes trying to work out what to say!!
We dont care, the majority of passengers dont care; get over it.