ATD: Get a life? Get a life?! Just because Benj has found someone he actually wants to be with other than an airplane !!
A simple answer to this guy's question "how much time can I expect to be apart?" wouldn't have hurt. Ok, the first bit about his "wife following him everywhere in the world" needed sorting, as Kilo did -- But your post?!
Nothing wrong about wanting to be with someone you love, is there. You come across 'cold as a stone, my friend! ...Get a life!