User777 definitly go for it!!!
If to FLY is your dream don't make someone else stop you, you'll regret it later in your life.
It's not simple, that's it the real story, but you need to evaluate all your options and do a plan and see your perspective.( look at details!)
Anyway a good school in USA, JAA , is
European Flight Training Fort Pierce in FL..take information,contact them, but be sure, it's a good school and remember every school have his bad and his good.
I think in 1 year and half you'll get all your licence (Atpl Jaa $49,999 ), then If you have money and you wish you can join P2f program ,actually jettraining.net and eaglejet give you a chance to get in a job...even if,my firend, I'm againt these programs!!!
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Leave any School like Oxford or CTC ect....good school, but with the same amount of money you pay 3 type ratings!!
Do everithing you want to do in you life to feel better!