I don't want to push you towards the one or the other side. But I can give you an advise for the "jealous wife problem": Nowadays there is free internet in every 5 star hotels (what kind of hotels does your future company provide?), so you can easily stay in contact with her (Skype, MSN, mail, video conference aso). Tell her that you don't go to the bar every night (and proof that you don't). You can do stupid mistakes among crews on SH as you can on LH...