bondim, on the aircraft, they
are God.
Thatīs just the way it is, and if we as cabin crew can not accept that without resentment, we should get a different job.
The good Gods are knowledgeable and benevolent. They know what they donīt know, and delegate accordingly. They treat all crew members with respect, yet do not hesitate to enforce their decisions when necessary. They always take the end responsibility and stand in front of their crew when (management) sh!t hits the fan.
They are leaders in the best sense of the word, and a pleasure to work with.
The bad Gods KNOW they know it all, and are a malevolent influence. They throw their weight around in a way that antagonises others and creates a sullen atmosphere. They treat cabin crew with thinly veiled disdain, micro manage what happens on both sides of the cockpit door yet are nowhere to be seen when trouble arrives.
They are self important bullies and a nightmare to work with.
Thankfully, there are many more of the first than of the second variety.
IMO, good, professional cabin crew will work with both these extremes and all variations in between, to jointly ensure a safe and comfortable flight for the pax.
... a frustration-venting post on PPRuNe is a good way to let off steam after a flight with a God of the Second Variety. I speak from experience. 