Hey adsyj, you sound like you need someone to vent to in real life.
All blokes are allowed one person to tell their worries and stresses to, thats your missus
No problem with posting it on here but it's not as effective as cracking a cold beer and mulling it over with her. If you can do that then you'l feel heaps better straight away and an added bonus, she won't think you're a moody w@nker
I had one marriage where I made the mistake of keeping what was bothering me to myself and I'm in another one where things like that are a sort of interesting intelectual topic of conversation. The latter is working much better for me.
Have a good night out.