As much as it pains me to say it, here on PPrune, but some of you here need to wake up and smell the bovril.
Ex mil guys are a fact of life, they are NO different anyone else, they have merely come through a different system with a different set of requirements, most are good sorts, but as ever there is the odd individual with very little between their ears who have slipped through the cracks.
VS has been through the ex squadron mate zone, as have TAG, the fact is, we are ALL professionals.
Get over it for fecks sake
