I remember asking the then head of manning (can't remember the title - AVM someone) at a conference at the RAeS whether he agreed with me that a career in the RAF and a proper family life were entirely incompatiable (he had set out in his talk that loads of people were leaving, and as I had just PVR'd I thought I'd be helpful....)
His answer...
"well.....I'm divorced...."
So that did it for me. And yes, my ac type went too..... but I still enjoyed the Tutor to the bitter end!
I'd agree with all those who have basically said if you are not happy, then PVR. Otherwise, you only have yourself to blame - and get on with it with less whining. Fun as it is to read of course