I think the point some people have been trying to make is that, fair enough, you've been given 45K, no strings attached, but do you really have to rub it in that you've been luckier than most people are?
I admit, I'm really envious of those who are lucky enough to be in this position, but if I was in their place, the last thing I would want to do would be to bragg about it to other less fortunate wannabes.