shortly, why don't you find a mate who is a member of the AOA and watch the video of the last Focus Night. You seem to want everyone to be open and receptive to other peoples' thoughts and ideas. Maybe you shoud afford the same consideration to the group you have forsaken.
By the way, your comment above is really quite amusing. What makes you think you are part of the solution? You aren't a member of the AOA so that means you must be a manager. Otherwise how could you consider yourself to be part of the solution?