I have to say that Miss M's views have softened a lot since when she/he first started posting. I see this as very positive and I feel it is just human nature that she/he defends herself.
I am pleased you come on here Miss M and give us your views. Some of us have been able to explain to you why we did come in to work and I genuinely hope this has helped you understand why everyone was not united in this IA.
It is hard to talk at work and I do think it helps to have these adult conversations without either side insulting each other.
So thank you Miss M for sharing your views.