Miss M,
I can see that a lot of what you say sounds fair and put how you put it many would also be happy with that, in fact it dose not sound that much different from the agreement that Unite and TW negotiated.
Do you not feel that having DH so firmly in-charge is actually at odds with him ever agreeing to those things, after all he is one of the dismissed crew!!
Do you feel that you need a new leadership in order that all this can move on?
I also feel that the reason so many of us did not want to strike over the crewing levels in the first place was that we could see that it would only make Mixed Fleet bigger. I am glad that you understand this now.
BG