Well its the Flight Instructors "John Hancock" on your Student Pilots Certificate and in your logbook. I solo students when they are ready and not once second before. Its a free country or was and you are perfectly free to find another Flight Instructor or School for that matter. Sounds more like a personalty issue to me. If you were my student going to a web sight rather and speaking to me about it, I would tell you its time for you to find another. You should be talking to him or her what ever the case maybe.