Shortypops, you are coming over (to me, at least) as somewhat indecisive and lacking in assertiveness
Unfortunately I concur. These traits don't transfer to the cockpit well either.
The skill set you are aiming for in the cockpit is the one which on the ground is where you meet the CFI and resolve these issues with immediate effect.
The one who struggles more is the one who procrastinates and avoids such situations who generally speaking will struggle a little at flight training as they lack the problem solving skills which are an important part of flight training even at PPL level.