Shortypops, you are coming over (to me, at least) as somewhat indecisive and lacking in assertiveness. I think you should talk to your instructor rather than posting your troubles here, as we don't actually know how good you are at aircraft handling and decision making. You might consider that if you come over the same way to your instructor as you do to me, that this is what is slowing down your progress.
Or, of course, your instructor could be not a good match for you. It happens, people's personalities don't always mesh. Have you flown with anyone else? Perhaps you should get an independent opinion on your flying? Maybe the school is poor, or maybe you aren't ready to fly solo. Again, independent advice based on knowledge
