I am an Ex, so i understand what u mean, what i try to say is that i worked for many other airlines and having 5/4 is a dream for us outside of ryanair, money is almost the same, aircraft are quite older, CRM is not so good and you are based 90% away from "home" cause no other airline has a base in every other airport.
So i say, Ryanair has lots of problems, but commuting and rostering is definitely the least of it.