awareness, tenacity, big picture thinking, handling skills, management techniques and the ability to pick up any woman that walks into a room .... especially your first officers wife
Cpt Toss - as always spot on - however may I suggest you correct the above to the more correct ' pick up your Second Officers wife' seeing that most FO's (and by definition their wives) are now so old - due lack of upgrades - that you prob won't be interested in them anymore.