at a pub or restaurant if someone is a nuisance you ask them to leave. If they wont you get the police and they ask them to leave.
not everyone gets charged.
disobey a rule on an aircraft and you cant call a bouncer or the police at 40k feet so you just do as your told it's not that hard and the rest of the passengers usually support the crew 150%
Never had a passenger complaint for cutting off the booze or telling a pax to pull their head in, except of course for the punter who gets told is the experience of 90% of my colleagues.
Rule number 1 do what the Captain and crew tell you.
Rule number 2 .. always follow rule number one
Aircraft are not a shop, restaurant or pub.. the rules are there for a reason.
99.9999% of pax travel without problems and the idiots can fly with someone else as i dont want them on my flight or need them. and neither do the rest of our passengers.