Scroggs , thanks for the prompt reply, which answered my question completely.
As a woman, I am very much against moving the goal posts for females, just to ensure that a required "quota" of women, get admitted to any career or organisation.
On the other hand, in your scenario of "a sh*tty night...", female skills such as multi-tasking, might well be useful, so long as the woman had the rest of the "male" skills, required to handle that situation.