Oh yes, I can totally appreciate what you are saying.
I dont expect randoms to come and start a conversation with me in Costa. I just mean little things like smiles being exchanged in the queue...then the hat box is spotted and its wiped pretty quickly... but thats ok, I understand there are mixed feelings for mixed fleet and thats fine.
Most flights I have had so far, I have known at least one crew member which is nice. Makes it less daunting when you are new to flying having a familiar face in the breifing room! I was in the hold pool for Euro Fleet - so will be bidding for SH flights!!
Positive approach is fine for this month, like I said I have put into perspective my good fortune in having the chrismas period off and these days as well. If Februarys roster is similar, I will endeavor to get it rectified.
Thanks to you all for your advise and support!